"Why would a con make you listen to me any more than normal?"

As soon as it's out of his mouth, he flinches, knowing exactly why.

"Commoners typically wed for companionship, and frankly, ordering you around sounds exhausting. You just need to convince people we're used to being around each other. Up to you whether you like me. I'll follow your lead." That's probably the easiest way not to blow their cover.